Having some structure in your life can help you to achieve your health goals. Although we’re all individuals, we’re still human. And humans are creatures of habit.
Let's explore the power of a good routine, and how to set it up. We’ll also look more deeply at:
And we’ll also talk about keeping your routine flexible. After all, we all hit unexpected speed bumps and challenges we need to overcome in our day-to-day lives.
GP Dr Jill Gamberg says that, “Routines help us to get more organised and feel less overwhelmed. This results in less procrastination and stress, which is great for our health!”
She suggests starting with identifying your personal circadian rhythm (your body’s 24-hour internal clock). Understanding this will help you to identify when you most like to do certain activities, and this self-knowledge can then help you plan your daily routine.
If you’re a parent you’ll probably want to plan routines for your children as well. According to Dr Jill, routines can help kids to:
If you’re trying to create a healthy routine, do it with a friend or family member.
If you’re not a routine kind of person, that’s fine. “Everyone’s different,” comments Dr Jill. “If you hate routines, there’s no benefit in being rigid. That can drain your creativity and stifle you.”
She says that the key is to know what works for you. If you need to make your routine extra flexible, that’s fine. Or maybe it means not having a routine at all. Either way, it’s OK, as long as you do the things you need to get done.
We all – including kids - have goals of some kind, but we often get stuck on achieving them.
“If so, break your goals down into smaller goals,” Dr Jill recommends. For example, running a marathon probably feels overwhelming. But if you break it down into smaller steps, say running for 30 minutes three times a week and gradually increasing from there, that feels more achievable.
It’s about changing your behaviour over time to help make long-term lifestyle changes.
Dr Jill also recommends SMART goals. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time-based. An example of a smart goal is ‘I will run a marathon by the end of this year’.
Here’s how that goal includes each element of ‘SMART’:
Dr Jill says that accountability can be extremely helpful for motivating us to reach our goals. “If you’re trying to create a healthy routine, do it with a friend or family member,” she recommends.
She also suggests picking healthy activities that you enjoy. That marathon goal wouldn’t be a good idea if you know you hate running. This is where knowing why your goal is relevant helps. Perhaps you originally thought of running a marathon to feel fitter. If so, and you love dancing, maybe set a goal of doing a Zumba class three times a week instead.
Waking up on the wrong side of the bed can leave you feeling rushed and rattled, which then affects the rest of your day. To avoid this, a morning routine can help ease you into your day.
Dr Jill offers 5 of her best morning routine suggestions:
Ending your day right is also important and aids in having a more restful sleep. High-quality sleep also makes your brain sharper for the following day. Here are some suggestions:
However, stop watching TV or using a phone, tablet or computer screen at least 30 minutes before bed. The blue light from screens may affect your sleep.
We tend to eat whatever’s available in our kitchen cupboards. So, if you buy junk food from the supermarket, that’s what you’ll snack on when you’re hungry. But the same applies if there’s healthy food in your house.
Dr Jill says there’s nothing wrong with having chips or chocolate sometimes. But if they’re not there, you won’t reach for them. She also says that preparing a grocery list before you go shopping will help to decrease your impulse buys.
When eating out, Dr Jill recommends mostly choosing restaurants with healthier options. It’s okay to have the odd hamburger - just not every day. However, she also says that creating a routine of cooking at home is usually better, with benefits like:
Some people prefer doing morning exercise routines – perhaps a morning yoga or stretching routine. Others prefer to get the exercise they need in the afternoon or evening. Still others rely on incidental exercise.
Regardless, the important thing is to find what works for you, and change it up if it stops working. Dr Jill comments that in her twenties, she exercised after dinner every night. Now, she thinks that would kill her, so she’s changed her routine to suit her new situation.
You might also consider creating a mindfulness or meditation routine to support your mental wellness.
Routines can be incredibly helpful in achieving our health goals, but many of us struggle to form them on our own. If that’s true for you, Dr Jill recommends reaching out to a professional such as a:
“Lastly,” Dr Jill says, “Be kind to yourself. None of us are perfect. We all make mistakes. You can’t change yesterday, but you can always change tomorrow.”
Reviewed by the healthylife Advisory Board June 2021